You just got served with divorce papers. Your heart is racing, your palms are sweaty, you feel like you’ve been slapped across the face. When you finally muster the strength to sit down and read the papers, you are in no better shape. The stack of court pleadings spewing out legal citations and “wherefores” and “herebys” has left you dazed and confused. You don’t fully understand what you’re reading, but you know you have to do something: The “summons” requires you to respond within 30 days.